Be ambitious but authentic

Steven Zauderer of Cross River Therapy points out these astonishing statistics: 45% of students in high school admit to being stressed almost every day in school. 61% of teenagers between ages 13 and 17 feel stress over producing satisfactory grades.

Effects of inauthenticity

Trying to win other people's approval and stretching yourself beyond what you can handle leads to stress.

The issue of stress is of great prevalence. Not only your mental health but your physical health can be affected too. Before you can embark on the journey of conquering your stress you need to know how to identify it. When stressed, you might feel irritable, angry, impatient, or wound up. Increased Nerves and anxiety are part of the package. Your thoughts begin to race and are hard to switch off. You might feel depressed, lose your sense of humour, experience a sense of dread, or feel worried and tense. My sense of humour is a coping mechanism as far as I’m concerned if I lose that I’ve lost everything.

What are the Major Causes of Student Stress (The Fields Pretoria)

Stress can also manifest physically due to the hormones our bodies produce in response to stressful situations. “Physical signs of stress include difficulty breathing, panic attacks, blurred eyesight or sore eyes, sleep problems, fatigue, muscle aches, headaches, chest pains, and high blood pressure. Yeah, I apologise but there's more: Indigestion, heartburn, constipation, diarrhoea, nausea, dizziness, sudden weight changes, rashes, itchy skin, sweating, and changes to your menstrual cycle are also common.” (Mind)

Finding yourself and curing stress

Your “Sad” playlist on Spotify can only do so much. Managing and reducing stress involves a combination of lifestyle changes, mindfulness practices, and sometimes professional help.

Establishing a regular sleep routine is crucial, don't be like those in the statistics.

Healthy eating, including a balanced diet of fruits, vegetables, lean proteins, and whole grains, helps the body manage stress. Social support from friends, family, or support groups provides a sense of belonging and an outlet for worries. I know you find it hard to acknowledge but professional help from counsellors or therapists offers tailored strategies and tools for stress management.

Maintaining sanity and mental health while in high school doesn't have to be fiction and burnout and stress non-fiction. There is a need to create a balance. You wouldn’t feel like you're in school if you're sleeping all day every day, you would accomplish nothing if deadlines didn't exist.

Effective time management, task prioritisation, and engaging in enjoyable hobbies can prevent overwhelm and reduce stress. Stop taking up so many tasks and extracurricular activities you know you can't handle. Don't be a people pleaser, relax and do what you enjoy.

You should wake up in the morning in a frenzy to go do your favourite sport. Exercise releases endorphins, the body's natural stress relievers, and can significantly improve mood. Exercise or play a sport simply to have some fun and not for your college applications. Be intentional in prioritising your well-being.

An artistic endeavour whether it be playing an instrument, singing, dancing, painting, photography etc and give your all into that. Construct or build a string of quality events participated in and accomplishments in those particular areas.

Do your advocacy work, participate in the olympiads’ and the Model UN’s but space all these out so your goals are attainable, space it out so you don't experience burnout, space it out so you have time to celebrate your achievements.

Conclusion

Finally, learning to say no and setting boundaries is essential. Taking on too much can lead to burnout and stress as we have explored, so it's important to recognize your limits and permit yourself to decline additional responsibilities. Implementing these strategies can create a comprehensive approach to managing and curing stress. Finding your true interests and having a real holistic IB experience. Remember, being ambitious is important, but so is being authentic. By finding your true interests and maintaining a balance, you'll not only achieve your goals but also enjoy the journey. Take care of yourself, and your dream college will recognize the true, unique you.

References

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Berman, Jillian, and Marketwatch. “Black New Yorkers with a College Degree Earn $21,900 Less a Year than Their White Counterparts.” New York Post, 5 Aug. 2020, nypost.com/2020/08/05/black-new-yorkers-with-a-college-degree-earn-21900-less-a-year-than-their-white-counterparts/.

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Zauderer, Steven. “47 Student Stress Statistics (High School/College).” Www.crossrivertherapy.com, 11 Jan. 2023, www.crossrivertherapy.com/student-stress-statistics#:~:text=Student Stress Statistics-.